Some 80% of folks/couples that I work with have sexuality issues. Hands down. Either they have a hard time embracing their own sexuality or are too timid to explore their desires with their partner. Either way, they feel unhappy, tense, unheard and unappreciated. The stress sometimes is so high that it manifests itself as a physical dis-ease: migraines, back problems, nervous twitches, fibrosis; the list can be continued forever.
Even though it requires courage, sometimes even a lot of it, the fastest way to overcome sexual stuckness is to attack it head-on. A couples retreat where you focus on each other’s physicality and sexuality has the potential to heal even the most desperate relationship. A few months ago I introduced OneTaste to you. Today I would like to introduce another wonderful site to you: SexySpirits. The website is run by Steven Otero, someone who has an encyclopedic knowledge of all things sexual. Sign up for their free newsletter. It is filled with workshops, retreats, information about how to improve your relationship, sexuality, and much more. You can learn how to give (and then also receive) Tantric Massages or learn Erotic Touch through video online courses.
I am a huge believer that we are on this planet to live the most fulfilled, most expressed, and most proactively created life we possible can live. Take the first step in the direction of healing and fulfillment and the rest will unfold. Have faith.
Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.
It is in our nature to aim for better, bigger, and more. A bigger house, a bigger car, a more expensive watch, a better school, a more exquisite neighborhood, more money, a more prestigious job, etc., etc., etc. Even at a time where we are faced with the biggest economic crisis since the Great Depression, we still aim for the exact same things. The financial crisis might have put a temporary dent in our quest for accumulation of stuff and prestige, but as soon as we can make out a silver lining in the horizon, we go full steam ahead again for the exact same things that originally gave us the headaches and the ulcers to begin with – a never ending vicious cycle/game we are condemned to play until…well, until we realize that we are in a vicious cycle and then take the necessary steps to get out of it – and everybody can do so.
Who says you must, just because you currently earn the money, buy a house in an exquisite neighborhood, maxing out all of your credit lines and turning you into a slave of the banks for decades to come? Just so that you and everyone else know where you stand in society? Why do we have to upgrade our car and lease/buy a brand new gas guzzling behemoth of a vehicle (or two), just because we can? Just because we currently earn the money or have a job – lawyer, physician, manager, business owner – that “requires” an adequate status symbol in the form of an expensive import does not necessarily mean that we have to give into this perpetual game of “having to work to feed the monster” (i.e. our own ego, banks, credit card companies, and local municipalities). You are not a Bouncy Ball and believe it or not, you do have a choice! You can not only “survive” by just living in a smaller house, driving a less exquisite car, and acquiring simply less stuff, you can actually lead a happier, healthier, and more fulfilled life! It is that easy! Why? Well, the less you live on the edge, by having exhausted all of your credit lines, the less you must be worrying about having to make the next paycheck. You can use the money you save to go on a vacation, buy higher quality foods, contribute to charity, or simply, and maybe most importantly, have more time to spend with your friends and family!
You are now telling me you cannot do so?! Don’t try to BS me, yourself, or anyone else for that matter!
If one of the wealthiest men of our times, Warren Buffett, can do so, I guarantee you, you can as well. I have been an admirer of Mr. Buffett for many years and I consider him to be a role model for me and my life. I do not mean this from a financial success point of view but rather how he carries himself, his philosophy on life, and his philanthropic traits.
Even though this man has achieved practically everything a man could ask for in a long, fulfilled, healthy life, he has remained a most humble and down to earth human. His primary home is the same he bought in the 60′s in Omaha, and he drives a Toyota Prius. Despite the fact that his personal net worth is estimated somewhere are fifty billion dollars, give or take a few billion, he only pays himself an annual salary of $100k. Not to mention that he has vowed to give away 99% of his wealth! How incredible is that?!
Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.
During all my years as a coach I have always remained a neutral agent to my clients and never promoted a specific supplement company – in part because I hadn’t found a company worthwhile to team up with and in part because I simply couldn’t be bothered to sell a specific product.
All of this changed when I was introduced to Ringana – a family run, organic, vegetarian/vegan, super ethical, free of any animal testing, and super freshly (quasi on demand) producing a nutrition supplement and natural cosmetics company – about a year ago during one of my visits to Europe. Since then I have been able to supply my clients across the globe with outstanding products – regrettably, my non-European clients cannot directly order from Ringana as they do not ship to far away destinations, such as North America or Australia. But whenever I am in Europe, I can ship the goodies as a private shipment to my peeps in the US and Canada. My peeps in Europe can order directly from them without any hassle – Ringana offers a fantastic customer support who are very anxious to help in any possible way and offer a 100% money back guarantee whenever you are dissatisfied with any of their products. The company is romantically headquartered in a medieval castle in Hartberg, Styria, about 80 miles south of Vienna, Austria. Alone the drive through the rolling hills of northern Styria put you in a serene mood and open up your heart and soul to leading a holistic and healthy lifestyle.
Ringana offers four different types of products: 1) natural cosmetics: only using natural ingredients without any additives or preservatives which on one hand means that their products only have a shelf-life of some three months but on the other hand means that their products truly are all natural without any preservatives whatsoever (and that is quite an attribute!): shampoos, lotions, and oils 2) preventative supplements: cleansing sachets, antioxidants, weight control products, and energy boosting powder 3) laser targeted supplements helping with various problems: heart and blood pressure, joint problems, ADD and concentration issues, brittle hair and nail, weight issues, low energy and fatigue syndrome, bladder and prostate problems, etc., and finally 4) dog food supplements for overweight, mature and sick puppies (this is a brand new product line only introduced on June 1st due to their high customer demand).
Simply fantastic and awe-inspiring products that have won some major local and national prizes for quality, sustainability, and ethical standards – for more info just check out Ringana.com.
I am proud to say that as of this month I have teamed up with Ringana and will help build up a distribution network with them in Europe and then, once the time is ripe, in North America.
Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.
In my many years of research of how to tap into the universal energies and trying to consciously connect with this invisible net that connects us all so that I can proactively call into my life experiences, events and people that I want, I have not come across a more powerful tool than appreciation and gratitude. I would say that being consciously grateful and appreciative for all the things that I currently have are the most effective ways to shift my energies and help (re)-focus my mind on what it is that I truly want.
Life Happens
We all fall regularly off of our horse and back into our old patterns of victimization, helplessness and confusion. And I am the first one to openly admit that I do fall off my horse on a daily basis despite the fact that I know that I am a blessed little soul: am healthy, fairly fit, decent looking, charming smile, a supportive family and wonderful friends, clothes to wear, abundance of food to eat, and so on. Even though I am consciously aware of all of these things I lose sight of what it is that I want and go astray when faced with a challenge and then everything seemingly collapses: I feel too fat, too stupid, too slow, too “blah, blah, blah”.
Regaining the Horse
Falling off of my horse is one thing, getting back on my horse is a completely different game – and I have certainly trained myself to get back on my little horsey as soon as I become aware that I have fallen off my horse – this is the biggest difference between folks who feel victimized and end up in a corner sucking on their thumb and those who achieve whatever it is that they want to achieve despite the fear they feel. The past 18 months have been the most challenging of my life, hands down! I lost my multimillion dollar biz, my father passed, my girlfriend and I split, long term side effects of my cancer treatment some 20 years ago cropped up – challenges that truly shook my entire belief system from the foundation up. How come I am experiencing all these catastrophes and facing all these challenges when I have trained my mind and soul to think and “feel” in a specific way, I kept asking myself countless times these past 18 months? How come that despite the fact that I truly believe that it is us who draw into our lives all the experiences that we experience through our own thoughts, emotions and actions, I am faced with life altering challenges one after the other in a short period of time? Lord, what have I done to deserve this?
Shift of Focus
It is in moments like those, when I have lost sight of what is truly important and what it is that I actually have, that my downward spiral starts and I fall off of my horse. But somehow, deep, deep down, a switch gets flicked when my internal pressure reaches a certain point and my internal guardian angel helps me shift my focus from what it is that I do not want and what it is that creates fear and stress in me to what it is that I actually have at this very moment. Simply by merely focusing my attention on what it is that I have right now, from the simple and small, such as clothes that I am wearing and the gym that I am a member of, to the big and complex, such as my health, being able to navigate my ship out of the wreckage that the collapse of my company left me with, as well as having the support and love of my family and friends, almost automatically gets me back on my horse again.
Why Does it Work?
Now why is that? How come that when I consciously think of the things that I have, I almost immediately feel better and switch into my pro-activeness mode telling my horsey where to go? Having observed myself and the emotions that rush through my body and mind, when I consciously feel grateful and appreciative of all the things that I currently have, I believe that we have a built-in lever that, once moved from the victim position to the grateful position, brings about a bio-chemical / energetic / spiritual alteration of our molecular set-up which quasi leaves us with no other alternative than to simply feel better and see things more lighthearted than before. This lighthearted approach in return helps to see clearer and thus we are able to take charge of our ship again. Once we are the navigator again holding our ship’s wheel firmly with both hands we then, also, attract more energies from the universe to support us to reach our final destination. Take Charge and See the Results
Here is an example: a friend of mine who I worked with for some time a couple of years ago, called me up last September telling me that his division got shut down and as a result he lost his job. He of course was shocked and in disbelief and for a couple of days he felt very depressed and victimized. After a few days though he started to tell himself that losing his job was not a catastrophe but an opportunity – an opportunity to find a job made him more money and where he could achieve more than in his previous job. He didn’t worry about the fact that we were in the worst recession since the Great Depression of the 1930′s. By shifting his energies from depression and fear to being grateful that he was given a severance package affording him some time to find a new job, knowing that he had a supportive family, and a loving wife to then solely focusing on finding the best job of his life ever, he then started to attract more and more supportive energies from the universe so that within only two weeks he landed his big job. He now works for a Fortune 500 company – the same company that for several years in a row dismissed his applications, each time giving him a different reason why he was not a fit. This time though, now that he had more work experience and had matured as a manager and thus knew of the value that he brought to the table, the company accepted his application and offered him a decent job. Something that people would say seems like an impossible thing to happen: finding a job during the height of the recession at the very same company that has turned him down several times in the past years.
Simply incredible!
Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.
