If you have a Meaning inside your Existence, You are able to overcome the most atrocious challenges

Viktor Frankl, an Austrian mental health specialist who made it Auschwitz, authored a magazine that's generally referred to as "Man's Look for Meaning". In the book he concludes the concept of existence can be found in every moment of just living existence never ceases to possess meaning, even just in suffering and dying. Frankl observed that individuals inmates who had something significant to complete upon their release in the concentration camping, like a teacher coming back to his students or perhaps a physician being careful of his patients, or someone awaiting their go back home, for example children or perhaps a spouse, were built with a much greater possibility of survival than individuals with no significant existence home. Understanding that someone was based on their return gave inmates the strength to cope with the worst atrocities imaginable. Frankl themself, simply, made it Auschwitz while he were built with a loving wife and family who have been awaiting him in addition to a profession he loved. He imagined discussing his encounters within the concentration camping together with his students in the college in Vienna where he trained and resided.

I often meet individuals who, despite facing most difficult occasions, continue to pay attention to encounters that provide them pleasure and happiness, for example travel or investing time using their grandchildren.

When my world flattened around me a few years ago: in just a couple of several weeks I lost my dad, my multimillion dollar business flattened, my girlfriend explained there will not be considered a future for all of us and lastly I had been relayed through my doctors that my cancer treatment over two decades ago, had triggered some harm to my heart that we eventually would need to tackle mind-on by going through surgery, I began to consider this volitile manner would not finish which I'd eventually finish on the roads. Despite all of the stresses which i was uncovered to, in some way I centered on the moments later on where I possibly could share my encounters with my future family along with the relaxation around the globe. I imagined the way i would have the ability to help others overcome their challenges better and faster through my work: blog, videos, workshops, books and lectures. The concentrating on my future, better, existence, assisted me to step outdoors of my unique circumstances and gain far. Using the distance came clearness and concentrate. The greater I could separate myself in the falling apart world around me, the greater I could relax and target the existence which i wanted personally later on. Progressively, with every passing month with each small success during my existence,  my self confidence got more powerful and more powerful to ensure that I eventually dared to dream large again. Large as with retiring by 45 where I only work because I may wish to work which my work would center around travel the ones which it might pay me handsomely. Well, today, only a relatively shot time period after my financial collapse I might say that i'm well into my method of achieving just that. 

There's not a secret to my achievements and accomplishments  basically can perform so, I'm convinced that can be done so, too. Find something inside your existence that "turns yourself onInch, which makes you content which enables you to feel wanted and satisfied. For me personally this really is traveling the planet and getting together with people  what will it be for you personally?

Viktor Frankl, an Austrian mental health specialist who made it Auschwitz, authored a magazine that's generally referred to as "Man's Look for Meaning". In the book he concludes the concept of existence can be found in every moment of just living existence never ceases to possess meaning, even just in suffering and dying. Frankl observed that individuals inmates who had something significant to complete upon their release in the concentration camping, like a teacher coming back to his students or perhaps a physician being careful of his patients, or someone awaiting their go back home, for example children or perhaps a spouse, were built with a much greater possibility of survival than individuals with no significant existence home. Understanding that someone was based on their return gave inmates the strength to cope with the worst atrocities imaginable. Frankl themself, simply, made it Auschwitz while he were built with a loving wife and family who have been awaiting him in addition to a profession he loved. He imagined discussing his encounters within the concentration camping together with his students in the college in Vienna where he trained and resided.

I often meet individuals who, despite facing most difficult occasions, continue to pay attention to encounters that provide them pleasure and happiness, for example travel or investing time using their grandchildren.

When my world flattened around me a few years ago: in just a couple of several weeks I lost my dad, my multimillion dollar business flattened, my girlfriend explained there will not be considered a future for all of us and lastly I had been relayed through my doctors that my cancer treatment over two decades ago, had triggered some harm to my heart that we eventually would need to tackle mind-on by going through surgery, I began to consider this volitile manner would not finish which I'd eventually finish on the roads. Despite all of the stresses which i was uncovered to, in some way I centered on the moments later on where I possibly could share my encounters with my future family along with the relaxation around the globe. I imagined the way i would have the ability to help others overcome their challenges better and faster through my work: blog, videos, workshops, books and lectures. The concentrating on my future, better, existence, assisted me to step outdoors of my unique circumstances and gain far. Using the distance came clearness and concentrate. The greater I could separate myself in the falling apart world around me, the greater I could relax and target the existence which i wanted personally later on. Progressively, with every passing month with each small success during my existence,  my self confidence got more powerful and more powerful to ensure that I eventually dared to dream large again. Large as with retiring by 45 where I only work because I may wish to work which my work would center around travel the ones which it might pay me handsomely. Well, today, only a relatively shot time period after my financial collapse I might say that i'm well into my method of achieving just that.

There's not a secret to my achievements and accomplishments  basically can perform so, I'm convinced that can be done so, too. Find something inside your existence that "turns yourself onInch, which makes you content which enables you to feel wanted and satisfied. For me personally this really is traveling the planet and getting together with people  what will it be for you personally?

Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.

Introducing Slow Sex and OneTaste

It is an incredible fact that 80% of the folks that I work with (yep, you read correctly – eighty percent!) are unhappy with their sex life, be it because they don’t have sex, not enough sex or not the sex the way they want. Because sex and sexual energy are such essential, core and deep drives, needs and wants, there is no way I can talk about how to shed weight, how to get healed from a chronic pain or why eating kale is good for you, if you don’t get laid the way you need and want it helping you realign your energies and destress your body, mind and soul.

If you are in a relationship and you have not had sex in a month then something is majorly wrong! (And I do not mean that you couldn’t have sex because you were physically separated or something to that effect!). I am talking about cases where you live together, sleep in the same bed, and share a life with another person.
There is no rule of thumb how often one should have sex, but I know for sure that having sex once or twice a month ain’t doing it for any healthy relationship! If you are brutally honest to yourself you will then also realize that it is not only the not having sex part that pisses you off, but also the routine gig that you are having – no more spontaneity, no more zest but pure routine and boring as hell. No wonder neither is into “it” and many fake the orgasm to be done with “it”. Well, then they wonder why they are having certain physical or mental or emotional problems, why they hate their job and ultimately themselves…it is the sexual tension that you are not releasing. That simple! Do you remember how sex was when you met your lover in the beginning?! OMG, you were on cloud number s(e)x (it’s a pun – hehe)!

Almost no matter how old you are: if you don’t get a good shag where you can let go and simply be and feel your body, your lover’s body, sweat, scream and yell – then you are on the wrong tracks! Either fix your sex life and become lovers again (there are ways!) or get the hell out of your relationship – otherwise you will be dying a slow – very slow – death!

Below, I would like to introduce to you Nicole Daedone and OneTaste- folks that I have teamed up with as I believe they offer an “out of this world” way to help women, men, and couples alike to re-discover their sexuality and reconnect with their sexual energies and (finally) lead the fulfilling relationship we all would want to have:
You may have heard of the slow-food movement that started in Italy to counteract the rise of fast food, promote locally grown produce, and encourage meals made and eaten with care. A similar movement is taking hold in the sexual arena: the slow-sex movement. It borrows ideas from many Eastern practices like Tantra and Buddhist mindfulness but with a modern twist.
No, the slow-sex movement doesn’t advocate having sex very, very slowly (although that could be one method of engaging in it!). Rather, it seeks to remind people in a “pornified” world, where the pressure for an ideal body or the “right way” to have sex, has taken them away from the foundation of sex: connection (with your partner and your own body), intimacy, and pleasure. (Through my work I have learned that sexual pleasure can be particularly difficult for women.)
At OneTaste, women and men can learn about mindful sexuality through classes, lectures, or living at the center. The New York Times describes it as a “co-ed live-in commune dedicated to the female orgasm.” Residents engage in morning “OMing” sessions in which women — naked from the waist down — lie in curtained rooms while fully clothed men stroke them to orgasm. Nicole , who is emerging as the leader of the slow-sex movement and who founded the OneTaste urban retreat center in San Francisco, invites men and women to learn about mindful sexuality by participating in workshops, yoga, and (for residents only) in the aforementioned “OMing” session.
In her own words Nicole says: I get apprehensive about using the word “revolutionize,” but it’s to revolutionize the way we look at sex. I think that we’ve gotten extremely distant from the actual “it” that it is and that it’s gotten kind of pathological the further away we’ve gotten away from the source of it. That’s why I like the idea of slow sex. You know, in the same way that we’ve industrialized food, we’ve industrialized sex. We’ve lost the meaning and the meaning really is simple: it’s the most elemental energy that allows two people to come together and tune into their own body at the same time, which is a pretty profound thing. I think that we’ve lost track of that.

Further she says that the primary reason for women to come to OneTaste is to connect with power — not what we’ve made power into, something that you lord over people — but to connect with that personal sense of power. I think that’s one of the biggest challenges for women in our age: we don’t have access to our own power, and we don’t have access to our power because the raw source of it is our sexuality and most women have never been trained how to hold that much power in our bodies. So there’s a way that we actually have men take all the responsibility for sexuality, and then we get upset that they’re holding it. Or they have this sort of power within them, and then we get upset that we don’t have that kind of power.
And the reason why men come to OneTaste: Everyone is coming to plug into the same thing. But there is a gender differentiation. My experience with most men is that they can sense that the kind of power that they have in our culture is a precarious thing. Because it’s not real, it’s not based on truth. It’s crumbling, right? We’re watching that everywhere, so most of the guys that I see who come in don’t really want to hold the power of sexuality. They don’t want to be the sole holders of this thing. How we have sexuality set up at this point is a subject-object relationship and so it’s just inaccurate. Guys are thinking, “But I have power” and women are thinking, “But I’m the victim.” We know that’s not true; we want to find that right true relationship. The men who come to OneTaste are men who are so sick of having to pretend like they know what they’re doing.

Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.

Receptors and Prongs

Folks who have been following me for a while know that in my world there are only (universal) energies and the manifestations of our thoughts and emotions which we call life and the experiences that we have. To make people understand the world of the interconnectedness of our energies and literally being able to show them how we attract the experiences and people that we attract I came up with the following picture:

We radiate at a certain frequency. Those frequencies are based upon our innermost and core beliefs and paradigms as well as the way we feel about ourselves and our life. Now imagine that the energies that we exude come out of our body like tentacles. Each belief and feeling equals one tentacle. Each tentacle has a different shape and length and color. Now imagine that each tentacle has prongs at its end. Furthermore picture your body being split into two halves. Your right side has all the prongs come out and radiate at a certain frequency and your left side is plastered with receptors of different shapes and colors. Those receptors are slightly magnetic (similar to power drills we all have at home) and also radiate at a certain frequency.
Being half receptors and half prongs we then go about our lives. Through our subconscious minds we send ahead signals and our prongs which constantly are on the lookout for receptors to connect with. At the same time our receptors are magnetically attracting prongs that are a perfect fit for them, i.e., radiate at the same frequency, have the same shape and color. So all day long we end up “connecting” with people all over the place.

Have you ever wondered why you meet the same type of man or woman throughout your life? Why you never have enough clients or find the right type of clients? Why you seemingly are always sick? Are involved in more accidents than anyone else you know? Or why some people seem to be winning stuff all the time?
Did the penny drop now? It is because of your own energies. It is because of the wavelength that you are radiating at. It is a law. You simply draw into your life all the experiences and people like a magnet because of your prongs and receptors. Once you change the frequency of your prongs and receptors you dramatically change your experiences and life! People that you magnetically drew into your life cannot “connect” with you anymore as their prongs simply slide off of receptor wall. Have receptors and prongs that vibrate at a different wavelength you now will attract those experiences and people that match your new frequency.

Change the way you think and feel and you will change the frequency you exude. Change the frequency and you will create a brand new life. This works in all areas of life: career, love life, health, you name it.

Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.

The world through the eyes of Princess Laine

In my last couple of blog entries I have been talking about how much I was inspired by some of my more mature travelers. This time I would like to share with you how traveling with a 12-year old girl put back some magic into my life and daily routine.

Life can be dreary, mundane, challenging and sometimes frightening. Life can be and often is a problem and very serious. Traveling through it as the personal guide of a princess makes it so much more adventurous and entertaining – one would feel like living in a permanent fairy tale. I have guided many, many tours in my life and have traveled with several thousand passengers across Europe. So, quite naturally, even an exciting job as mine can become routine and most certainly, at least at times, boring after a while. Unless of course you have the honor and the pleasure of guiding a princess and then all of a sudden everything changes and you walk through life with rose colored glasses on.

I don't remember exactly when, but I would guess pretty much at the beginning of our journey through Europe I started to call the daughter of some of my passengers princess – and do not ask me why, because I do not know, it was simply an inclination to do so. And already the first time I called Laine 'princess' I could see the spark in her eyes. At first she was a little timid and shy when I called her princess – but undoubtedly I could tell that she enjoyed being called so – but then, after just a few days into our journey, Laine had become a princess. She had slipped into her role as if she has always been a princess. The universe outside of our bus was gone – no past, no future, just the here and the now. We visited castles, and old buildings, cruised on the Rhine and discovered hidden gems and secret treasures in Europe together and with each new discovery through the Old World the princess became more and more real.

Observing her and seeing how much fun she had traveling through the Occident being called a princess made me see my world in a different light. I was again able to see the magic behind all the beauty and felt like traveling through a fairy tale world – even though the world I was traveling through was indeed very real and I was putting in 14-16 hour days every day, making sure my almost 50 passengers had the best time of their lives.

Just one small change to my routine changed everything - changed how I was perceiving my surroundings – and all I did was to call the daughter of some of my passengers 'princess'. Observing how much Laine enjoyed being a 'princess' and traveling and exploring Europe as a 'princess' made me smile every day. I, vicariously through her, had become a little prince myself and enjoyed exploring castles and Medieval towns that I had seen umpteen times before as if were seeing them for the first time – what an incredible and highly enjoyable experience that was. I saw gnomes hiding behind curtains and I imagined unicorns grazing in the pastures. I pictured court jesters and elegant dresses and opulent gala dinners where before I only would have seen bored goats hanging out in the sun, partially 

dilapidated old buildings and a landscape I had already seen a million times.

Our mind is an extremely powerful tool and learning how to utilize it not only makes our life more interesting and zesty, but more self-determined and fulfilled. I enjoyed my experience so much that I intend to have little 'princesses' on each and every one of my upcoming tours from now on – I want to continue to be able to see unicorns, court jesters and wizards – which I much prefer over seeing traffic jams, road works, overcrowded restaurants and experiencing the same old same old over and over again.

Where in your life can you have a 'princess' bringing some magic and inspiration into your life? Just a little magic will also help you bring in new insights and perspectives to your life, no matter, whether you are a lawyer, a physician or a firefighter. There is so much magic around us that yearns to be seen discovered and experienced and enjoyed, but never stands a chance due to our o so busy and stressful lives. Step back and allow magic to happen and I can almost guarantee you that it will.

Q Moayad is the Naked Healer. We have entered a new era of conscious living, noetic science, visualization, sine waves, self healing, self determination, visualizing, power of mind.You can see this all around you: in the stock market, your career, your relationships, your children and even your health. What used to work is no longer working. This era requires a new set of life tools. It calls for you to integrate your life actions with the power of international living.

“The Green Lantern” or how to create your Dream Life

I recently watched the movie “The Green Lantern” and it threw me right back into my childhood – a period of my life where my imagination knew no limits and everything was possible, absolutely everything. Sitting in the movie theater and watching the fantastic creations of the ring left not only with a big smile on my face but also reminded me that there are really no limits to what I can achieve in my life, as long as I can perceive it in as detailed a way as possible and believe that it will become reality.

The gist of this Marvel comic legend is that as the bearer of the ring you can, through the energy of the ring, which it receives from the ‘universe’, create anything you want in order to help save the world. The only limitations there are is what the ring bearer can actually envision. The clearer his vision and the stronger his belief, the more effective his ring’s creations will be. 

Apart from the fact that the ring chooses his bearer I thought that a real cool feature of the ring was that it draws its energy and power through the combined energy of the universe – showing us that the universe with all its living creatures are interconnected. 

When thinking back through my life I can say that everything that I wanted, envisioned and believed that it would happen actually became reality – here is an example of how my very own “Green Lantern” worked its magic:

In 2007 I was attending the Institute for Integrated Nutrition in New York. My friend and I traveled once a month to NY and spent a weekend studying with some 1,800 fellow classmates from across the nation at Columbus Circle. It happened that the 31^st of March, my birthday, fell on a class weekend. On Friday, March 30^th, already in NYC, I met up with a few friends who had organized a little get-together for me, which I thought to be very sweet of them and I really enjoyed hanging out with them. On the 31^st, when walking into our classroom, a temporarily converted concert hall, I was really excited to see what was organized for my birthday. So I asked my friend whether she had organized anything for me – she simply said ‘no’. I got really pissed at her as she, despite knowing how important birthdays are to me, did not do anything to set up a little party for me. Here I was in the heart of New York City, sitting among almost 2,000 people in an environment that I loved and highly enjoyed, but felt like the loneliest guy alive. I started to get angry and feel sorry for myself. All of this happened at around 10:30 in the morning. When I caught myself feeling like a victim, I said stop to myself and put the breaks on my growing emotions of anger, pain and sadness. Instead I closed my eyes and created the coolest birthday I could imagine for that day: 1) I wanted the entire class to applaud me for my birthday, 2) I wanted to have a private chat with the director of the institute I was studying at (at that time he had no clue who I was) 3) I wanted to be on stage and feel how it was to talk to an auditorium of nearly 2,000 people and finally 4) I wanted to have a dinner gathering in a cool restaurant/bar with friends and the principal of the school coming as well.

To me these wishes were quite daring and exciting as I had no clue how these wishes might possibly come true in such a short period of time. I had no clue how to attain any of my wishes in such a short period of time. Basically my wishes had to come true or be on their way by 4:00 in the afternoon as that was when school ended for the day.

Nothing happened for a couple of hours – we had our lunch break and resumed class at 1:00 p.m. At 2:00 p.m. I left my seat to go to the bathrooms. For whatever reason, before returning back to my seat I went upstairs to check out the upstairs section and to look down into the auditorium. While looking down I saw that the director of the institute was sitting in my seat talking to my seat neighbor. My heart rate went up when I saw this and rushed back to my place. When I got back to my seat the director had already left my seat, so I asked my neighbor what he had wanted from us and I got the most amazing answer – he had come over to invite us to his hotel room at the end of class for a private get together. I thought to myself that this was simply crazy and started to internally smile.

During the final hour of class a lively discussion had broken out and I indicated that I had something important to share – to my utter surprise the director of the institute came to my seat gave me the microphone and asked me to go on stage and share my thoughts with the rest of class. So I got up and started to walk to the front as all of a sudden some of my classmates who knew me better started to shout ‘happy birthday’. More and more people realized that it was my birthday so eventually the entire auditorium started to clap and wish me a happy birthday. Standing in front of a couple of thousand people and being wished a happy birthday was a mind-blowing experience and while I enjoyed the attention that I was being given I started to hear the theme of ‘Twilight Zone’ in the back of my mind as I realized that another wish just had come through.

Later on that afternoon when I had a private chat with the director I asked him if he wanted to join some of us that evening helping me celebrate my birthday. First he said no, claiming that he was tired and in general did not mix too much with students but nonetheless he asked me for my cell phone so in case he could make it he would give me a call.

Well, needless to say that he did call me later that night and we all ended up celebrating my birthday in a trendy restaurant in Manhattan. 

The power of our mind is incredible and unbelievable – we can create anything we want as long as we dare thinking it. Utilize the inner “Green Lantern” that we all have built in and you will be amazed at what is possible for us in this world.